Nigerian singer and rapper Oladotun Alade, better known by his stage name Dotman, has made a deeply emotional revelation, admitting he regrets relocating from Nigeria to the United States.
The “Star Life” crooner took to his Instagram page to bare his heart in a candid post, expressing the toll that life abroad has taken on his mental and emotional well-being. In the message, Dotman confessed to struggling in silence since making the move and disclosed one of his biggest pains: being separated from his children for two years.
“Today, I regret ever deciding to leave Nigeria and move to the US. I have been struggling so much in silence. [I] haven’t seen my kids for about two years now,” the singer shared.
Dotman’s admission has resonated deeply with fans and followers, sparking a wider conversation around the often unspoken challenges of relocation, especially among celebrities who many believe are living a dream life abroad.
While the idea of relocating for better opportunities has become increasingly attractive among Nigerian entertainers, Dotman’s honest reflection serves as a stark reminder that success overseas doesn’t come without personal sacrifices.
In the past decade, a growing number of Nigerian celebrities have moved abroad, including industry heavyweights like Asake, Eldee, Dr. Sid, Genevieve Nnaji, Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, Rita Dominic, Tacha, Uche Jombo, and Emeka Ike. For many, the move is often driven by the pursuit of a better life, privacy, or global exposure. However, Dotman’s experience sheds light on the emotional cost of leaving behind familiar support systems and loved ones.
Dotman first rose to prominence with his hit single Akube and quickly became a household name in the Nigerian music scene. Known for his catchy hooks and relatable lyrics, he has maintained a steady presence in the Afropop and street-hop space.
Fans have flooded the singer’s comment section with messages of support, urging him to stay strong and hoping he reunites with his children soon.
As the entertainment world continues to witness a wave of talent migration, Dotman’s revelation might just be the wake-up call to consider the emotional and psychological realities behind the glitz of international relocation.
