As anticipation builds for the premiere of the 10th edition of Big Brother Naija, former housemate Tolanibaj has stepped forward with vital nuggets of wisdom for aspiring contestants.
In a candid video message shared on her TikTok page, the reality star dished out hard truths and practical advice that could shape the experience of new housemates in and beyond the Big Brother house. With a tone both reflective and empowering, she urged Season 10 hopefuls to remember that their time on the show is more than just a game; it’s a career launchpad.
Be Authentic or Be Forgotten
“Number one, be yourself. Don’t go in there and be boring. Nigerians are going to hate it. You will be surprised that it will not work in your favour,” Tolanibaj said, kicking off her list with a strong emphasis on authenticity. She encouraged housemates to stay true to their personalities, warning that pretenses rarely win the hearts of viewers.
Style is Strategy
The fashion-forward influencer stressed the importance of making every day a runway moment even behind closed doors. “Dress up every day… it is a show and also a way for you to sell yourself to fashion brands,” she advised. “Girls, do your makeup everyday. Guys, drip every day.”
She also suggested bringing personal clothing, noting that although Big Brother provides outfits for the Saturday night parties, contestants should be ready to represent their own fashion identity.
Friendships in the House? Think Again
In what many will interpret as a reality check, Tolanibaj addressed the often blurry lines between companionship and competition. “Your housemates are not your friends,” she declared. “They are teammates and colleagues… If you do come out of the Big Brother house and there is still a friendship there, then cool, you are lucky.”
She reminded aspirants that while bonds may form in the house, they should prepare for the possibility that those connections may not last outside.
Have a Post-Show Game Plan
One of the most impactful messages from her video was a stark warning about life after the limelight. “After the show, the organisers are not going to care about you… Plan, don’t depend on that money,” she said, highlighting the importance of having a vision beyond the house. She explained that winnings may come in installments and advised against banking too heavily on them for immediate stability.
The Spotlight Begins When the Cameras Stop Rolling
Tolanibaj rounded off her tips with a powerful message about long-term relevance. “The real show starts after the show… It is not about how far you go in the game, it is what you do after the show.” Her words echoed the experience of many former housemates whose post-show choices have either catapulted them to stardom or led them into obscurity.
As BBNaija Season 10 prepares to take over screens, Tolanibaj’s words serve as a timely wake-up call to hopefuls looking to turn their moment into a movement.
