Nigerian rapper and storyteller, Erigga, has expressed deep concern over what he describes as the death of genuine romance in today’s Nigerian society.
In a recent chat with Yanga FM Lagos, the Warri-born hip-hop act claimed that the culture of lavish spending and showy lifestyles popularized by internet fraudsters, popularly known as Yahoo boys, has significantly altered how love and relationships are perceived among young Nigerians.
According to Erigga, the extravagant lifestyle of these fraudsters has set unrealistic standards that many men can no longer meet, while some women have become conditioned to expect financial indulgence as proof of affection.
“Yahoo boys don kill romance,” Erigga lamented. “Genuine romance no longer exists. When last did you see two lovers holding hands together in the street? It has been long we saw such. The problem now is that we are raising weak men who feel their entire value is in their pockets.”
The Paper Boi crooner reminisced about a simpler time when love was not defined by luxury or financial show-off. He recalled when romantic gestures were inexpensive yet deeply meaningful.
“Nowadays, relationship is expensive. It used to be meat pie, Mr Biggs Fanta, very affordable back then. And the women were appreciative,” he said. “But men also share in the blame. Weak men are the ones who set the standards and women took and raised the bars.”
Erigga further advised men to rediscover the essence of romance beyond material offerings. He emphasized the importance of emotional intelligence, communication, and personal connection, urging men to build relationships rooted in genuine love rather than financial display.
“Money is important, yes, but it shouldn’t define a man’s worth or love life,” he added. “There are other things, your confidence, your mind, your vibe. These can spark real attraction more than just flaunting cash.”
Known for his unfiltered take on social issues, Erigga once again strikes a chord with his candid views, this time on the changing dynamics of love and relationships in the modern Nigerian setting.
