Popular Nigerian comedian Destalker has finally lifted the veil on a very private part of his life, his marriage and eventual divorce.
In a recent sit-down with content creator Timi Agbaje, the stand-up comic, known for keeping his personal life out of the spotlight, confirmed for the first time that his marriage has officially ended. The revelation came as a surprise to many fans, who were unaware that he had even tied the knot, let alone gone through a divorce.
“I am happy, I’ve a happy home. I was married but not anymore. Marriage is not a criteria for a happy home,” Destalker said during the interview, making it clear that despite the breakup, he is content with his current phase of life.
When asked what led to the failure of the marriage, Destalker cited one of the most common reasons behind separations:
“Irreconcilable differences. I was married for three years. I dated the person for six months before getting married. That’s the difference between a man and a woman. I can decide to remarry next week Friday or Saturday. But a woman can’t. It’s a man’s decision for marriage.”
The comedian’s response not only highlighted his personal experience but also sparked conversation on gender roles in relationships, especially within the cultural context of marriage in Nigeria.
Having been through the highs and lows of love, Destalker revealed that he currently has no interest in rekindling any romantic relationship.
“I’m not interested in love or romance at the moment,” he affirmed.
He also shared his thoughts on the dynamics of marriage, claiming that the institution tends to favour women more than men:
“Marriage is more beneficial to women than men,” he asserted.
Destalker’s candidness is a rare glimpse into the emotional world of a celebrity who usually keeps things light-hearted on stage but has now shown a deeper, more vulnerable side to his fans.
As conversations continue around the pressures of marriage, expectations, and gender roles, Destalker’s story adds another layer to the ongoing discourse around love, personal happiness, and societal norms.